When you suppress your own anger to not take it out on others, you’re own thoughts become limited to what you and the other person would have left. Some people would say guys are guilty until proven innocent, which is true. If they prove you wrong and they can get along with almost everyone you know even you’re friend and family, then you know you have someone who’s good.
But if not then its time to move on to the next. Don’t get me wrong, even men have the same generalization about women, that sounds even more harsh. But when you have a heart that’s been broken too many times, you either have two options, to really not care at all but yourself, or just move on with life to be better.